



Induced or planned, the surgical act of a cesarean (a birth via abdominal incision) is becoming more and more practical. But how do you prepare for it, how do you recover and what are the advantages and disadvantages?Lack of information about this operation is still common. This is why I hope that this article will inform you more about the sequence and the possibilities of recovery from a cesarean.
When giving birth to a baby, it is sometimes necessary to do a cesarean, whether it is scheduled, decided upon in an emergency, or by the mother’s choice in cases of possible complications. This was my case for my two births via abdominal incision.
When giving birth to a baby, it is sometimes necessary to do a cesarean, whether it is scheduled, decided upon in an emergency, or by the mother’s choice in cases of possible complications. This was my case for my two births via abdominal incision.
Having personally given birth to two little girls by cesarean, I wished to share with you my very positive experience and how I was able to recover very well from this significant surgical procedure which has allowed me to give life to two marvelous beings.
It is very rare that there are positive testimonials from a birth by cesarean and there are numerous women who feel very bad about not having been able to give birth “normally” vaginally and they have a significant feeling of failure which makes them feel powerless after the operation. In addition, the days following the procedure can be difficult and painful and most women have not been physically, mentally and emotionally prepared.However, there are many tips that can help you through this procedure and to recover as quickly as possible physically, mentally and emotionally, so that the experience of a cesarean is not experienced as a failure or something negative.
I hope that with this article and my personal positive experience, I can help and reassure all pregnant women whofind themselves forced to have a cesarean, and that they will have an experience which is as full and as positive aspossible, having as much information as possible in order to prepare sufficiently. Also, never forget that it doesn’tmatter how you are going to, or have given birth, be proud of having carried your child to term and having offeredhim life with the means that you have or that you have been given...
Happy reading.
In 25 years, the rate of cesareans has doubled. The rate was 10,9 % in 1981 a 20,1 % in 2007, meaning one birthout of 5. Around 1/3 cesareans are decided upon during birth when there is distress of the mother or baby, and 2/3cesareans are scheduled. The reasons for this increase are numerous, such as obstetricians currently prescribingmore preventative measures aiming to decrease the risk of fetal distress during labour, the growing number of “riskybirths” due to the increase in average age in mothers and twin births, the medico-legal pressure exerted onobstetricians and the simple fact that women today have the choice to decide how they would ideally like to givebirth.
The cesarean takes place in the operating room. An intravenous drip, an anesthetic epidural or spinal anesthesia, and a urinary catheter is placed in order to avoid damage to the bladder during the procedure
The epidural has replaced general anesthetic for most procedures, except in emergency cases or when the epidural is contraindicated. The positive consequences of this anesthetic are also psychological because the new mother is awake and can therefore welcome her baby and if the cesarean is scheduled, she can prepare herself mentally and there is less of a risk of having the impression of “missing the birth". On the other hand, the advantages are also physical because the epidural avoids the uncomfortable awakening from a general anesthetic (nausea, state of confusion and agitation, shivering). Additionally, the young mother is generally less tired and her body begins to heal much quicker .
Next , the skin of the abdomen is disinfected and a sterile operating field is placed. If the partner wishes to be present in the procedure, he will then enter and sit at the head of the patient after dressing in surgical scrubs. He can then chat with his partner without having to see anything of the procedure.
Often, a pressure is felt in the abdomen area at the moment of fetal extraction. As soon as the baby is outside, he is taken to his parents before being taken by the mid-wife (and then eventually handed to the father) for the first checks and handed to the pediatrician who is present in the operating room. The fetal extraction lasts less than 5minutes and the cesarean lasts on average 20-30 minutes.
Nausea, shortness of breath and a light malaise can be felt during the procedure but the anesthetist present in the operating room can, upon your request, make use of other products to reduce these effects.
Obviously, during a cesarean you will not be able to accompany your child as much physically at the birth as you would in a vaginal birth. However, absolutely nothing prevents you from accompanying your child mentally and emotionally throughout the procedure until your child is born with the help of your surgeon. Being as present as possible with the means that you have during the birth will come back to your child and you will bond regardless of which way you give birth. Your emotional and mental presence will have great significance for you and your child when you hear his first cries when he is born. Never forget that you will experience his birth through your state of mind.
Stressing the importance of breath during your surgery is not to be neglected. It is not because your body is numb and you lay on surgery table that breathing has to be forgotten. Inhaling and fully exhaling to empty your lungs and cleanse your body with every breath is so important during your labor, even more so if it is a c-section, as you will oxygenate your body with its most valuable fuel. The body flow stays improved and your tissues benefits massively from it to stay relaxed and not tense or congested because you are holding your breath or shallowing your breath because of the apprehension of the surgery which then tightens the skin and the fascia. Any tightness of fascia willdecelerate the healing process of a scar and cause adherences in the scar and belly area... So remind your clients of the most valuable Pilates tool, breathing. Joseph stressed a great deal on breathing with his clients and so should you for your pregnant ladies and remind them of : "JUZT BREEZE !!!" As Joe used to say with is German accent, "YOU MUST INZ ZE AIR AND OUTZ ZE AIR"...
Your bandages will next be placed and you will be monitored for 2 hours in the recovery or birthing room before being taken back to your room. Breastfeeding is then possible, as well as eating some light food.
Back in her room, the new mother will still have several tubes in her body : the catheter from the epidural (to ensure a light epidural for 24 to 48 hours), a drip (to nourish and hydrate the new mother and also to inject painkillers or antibiotics), a urinary catheter and a drain.
For the first 4 days following the cesarean, women will have significant bleeding, in general more abundant than after a vaginal birth. It is normal to saturate 5 or 6 special “after birth" pads in the first 24 hours. It is quite normal to have loss for 4 to 6 weeks.
How do you settle in the bed ? It is tempting to settle in a half-sitting position, supported by several pillows with the knees raised to avoid stretching the stitches.
However, this position is very bad for the back and blocks blood circulation in the lower stomach. It is better to remain stretched out flatter with a single knee bent, and the foot flat on the mattress .
When you change legs, stretch the bent leg allowing to foot glide on the sheet while exhaling, and then bring the other leg in the bent position while folding in the groin, as if you are pulling on a string attached under the knee. It is important to involve the stomach and the lower back as little as possible when you are moving in the bed. To sit up in the bed, move the two legs towards the chest, and then roll in a single movement towards the side. With the knees grouped as high as possible, push on your arms to put yourself in a sitting position.
Tip : attach a rope or simply the belt of your pyjamas to the bottom of the bed. This will enable you to hoist yourself up progressively (like a mountaineer) in a stretched out position to a sitting position.
The first 24 hours following a cesarean are rarely the most painful as most women are still under the effects of the epidural or receiving pain killers through a drip
Food is generally light (tea and biscuits are given on the first day, soup the next day followed by the first meal) as the intestinal transit has not yet been reestablished. Its reestablishment generally accompanies gurgling noises and gas which is difficult to evacuate.
After a birth, you will still experience contractions. These are the afterpains : the uterus is retracting to progressively return to its original size before pregnancy (generally 2 weeks after the birth). They also compress the blood vessels to avoid a hemorrhage. This mechanism lasts between 1 and 4 days, with a maximum of 1 week, and is particularly strong the first two days. A few tips to decrease the pain of the afterpains: urinate frequently (especially before breastfeeding) as a full bladder will push the uterus towards the back and will prevent it from contracting.
As you will be bedridden for some time after your cesarean, you will perhaps be receiving some anticoagulants in the days following the procedure in the form of sub-cutaneous injections. You will most certainly be asked to get up from around 12 to 24 hours following the cesarean. The first time you get up is often painful.
Here is some advice :
- Begin by sitting on the side of the bed with your feet placed on theground (if the bed is electric) or in a stool. Straighten yourself up byleaning on your arms. Do not look at the ground.
- Supported by a nurse, cross an arm over your stomach to support the scarwhen you take your first steps.
- Try to keep as straight as possible. Most women are dizzy when they firstget up. The more you move and walk straight up, the quicker the scar willheal and you will prevent build-up around the scar.
- If you get a spasm, lean on a nurse and close your eyes so that you can concentrate on your breathing.
The next day following the procedure, it is important to begin breathing exercises to stimulate lower stomach circulation, which is essential to accelerate the scar’s healing process. Mobilizing your scar and stomach is imperative to ensure rapid healing. The following exercises can be carried out in bed, several times per day, from the first day after the procedure :
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Footwork
Sitting in the bed, with the legs stretched, energetically extend and bend the tip of the feet, and alternate, and then the two feet together. Repeat20 times.
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Footwork
Stretched out in the bed, stretch the legs and do 10 ankle rotations withone leg at a time and then do the other leg.
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Pelvis Tilts (engagement of the back muscles)Stretched out in the bed, with the knees slightly bent, press into the mattress by progressively rotating the pelvis and bringing the stomach towards the spine, and then release. Repeat 20 times.
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Dead Bug (table top) & Femur Arch
Stretched out in the bed, bring the two knees towards the chest or one at a time (by sliding the feet on the sheet to gently lift the legs). Hold this position and breathe in completely and then release by sliding the legs along the sheet again). Repeat 10 times.
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Side to Side
After the stitches have been removed : lie on the back, bring the knees towards the chest and then bring the knees together on one side and then the other by "rolling" on the backside. Repeat 10 times.
It goes without saying that constant discomfort and painful contractions are constantly present after a cesarean butthis entire sequence should be done without increase in pain or discomfort. If this is the case, decrease therepetitions or intensity. Listen to your body and try your best to connect to the new sensations in your abdomen and pelvis.
Most woman complain of tugging and itching of the cesarean wound.
These are the various abdominal walls which, when they heal heal at different speeds, tug a little at each other. On the other hand, the skin around the scar can feel numb. During the stay in maternity, the bandage around the wound will be changed on average every two days to allow the nurse or doctor to check that the scarring process is taking place as it should. In certain maternity hospitals, the wound is simply left to air without a bandage.
If the wound appears red, swollen, throbbing or oozing, there could be an infection, especially if you have a feverover 38.5°C. Self-care often resolves the problem but antibiotics are often necessary.
This is generally the most painful day due to the re-establishment of intestinal transit. Nevertheless, try to walk as much as possible and to do exercices in bed
Often after a cesarean, the new mother feels as if she has been “cut into two" (even though the abdominal muscles have been stretched and not cut). She needs to rebalance her pelvis, to regain contact with her body and to feel her muscles again.
Two days after the procedure, you can begin to exercise again allowing you to recenter, to re-energize and rebalance the intra-abdominal pressure of a part of the body which has been immobilized by pregnancy (it is important to do this exercice with an empty bladder) :
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Single and doule Knee Fallout
Lying on the back, bend the knees, flatten the pelvis, and ensure that thefeet are flat on the ground, open one knee or both knees out to the side not moving the pelvis keeping the belly engaged (as flat as possible).
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Lolita San Miguels Provressive Pilates BreathingPlace the hands on the stomach and feel the breathing movements and increase the lung capacity progressively. Follow inhalation and exhalation with your hands : on inhalation, the hands rise and stretch, on exhalation, they descend and come closer together. Fully fill and empty the lungs in all three dimension (front, side and back) mobilizing the ribcage by counting to 8counts and progressively expanding your breath to 12-20counts.
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Engagement of the Centre (TA)
Try to gently draw the stomach (belly button) up and in towards your spine as far as possible by exhaling completely. Imagine wearing a tight highwaisted pair of jean that you need to zipper up.
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Bridging
Bend the knees and imagine pressing the ground with the soles of the feet, as if you want to transcend the carpet. The pubis rises and rotates, the hollow of the back descends, the back stretches and relaxes, the stomach rises again a little, the perineum is spontaneously brought to the top and your pelvis rotates to the pubis by supporting the backside to the ground by articulating the spine, vertebra by vertebra.
- Pre-Pilates Matwork : Engagement of the Pelvic Floor
Try to mobilize your pelvic floor in the following three ways :
* Make as if you want to retain gas. The anus contracts. Release.
* Contract the lateral walls of the vagina as if you are closing the doors to an elevator. Release.
* Imagine the pelvic floor like an elevator which is closing it's doors and ascending to the penthouse. The urinary sphincter will contract and lift.Release.
A cesarean scar is from 10 to 15 centimeters long and is invisible for others to see but it is however always present. It is an indelible relic from this fundamental moment in a woman’s life which is the day that she gave birth to her child
Halfway between a surgical act and birth, the cesarean is ambiguous. It provokes a flood of emotions with the arrival of a baby, while the procedure and the disgust faced with this scar, many women feel powerless by this scar.
Some face this procedure very well, while others have a hard time accepting it: a feeling of failure, of having«missed out» on the birth, numbness in the stomach and disgust when facing the scar are all part of the physical and psychological impact. Many do not dare to touch their scar because they do not know how to handle it. Once they are back home, they feel lost.
The cesarean has become so banal that we have the tendency to forget that it is major surgery. However, we knowthat it sometimes takes several months to recuperate.
All women are not always the same when faced with their scar. It is more a question of skin than a technique of closure; certain scar better than others, but it has been proven that regularly massaging a scar aids in good scarring.
“The impression that a part of my stomach no longer exists”. Certain women get the impression that a part of their stomachs no longer exists. Certain areas of the stomach are numb which can be very confusing. By cutting into the stomach, certain nerves are cut which takes a little time for the nerve network to reconstruct after a cesarean. But feeling comes back little by little and usually after about six months, feeling should have returned
More than a treatment, massage assists in accelerating recuperation and bringing back feeling to the skin but also in bringing back one’s body and in finding a better sensation in the stomach.
I hope that after all this information you as a Pilates teacher can understand more precisely what a c-section means and what you can teach your pregnant ladies for their recovery to prevent any negative or apprehensive feeling associated to this, let's not forget it, often life saving option for the mother to be or/and the child when giving birth. Please keep in mind that if my recovery was successful, it was because I practiced Pilates before, during and after pregnancy. So it will be most important to teach and prepare your client to these suggested exercises before and during the pregnancy for optimal results without taking any risks. Our input as Pilates teacher is of great importance as we can truly help mothers with the Pilates technique to stay connected to the body during all these changes in 9months of pregnancy. Helping your pregnant lady staying connected to herself by applying the concept of mind-body-spirit will help her tremendously to listen to her body and it's wisdom to optimize her recovery process.

The human head weighs about a dozen pounds. But as the neck bends forward and down, the weight on the cervical spine begins to increase. At a 15-degree angle, this weight is about 27 pounds, at 30 degrees it’s40 pounds, at 45 degrees it’s 49 pounds, and at 60 degrees it’s 60pounds.
That’s the burden that comes with staring at a smartphone — the way millions do for hours every day, according to research published byKenneth Hansraj in the National Library of Medicine. Over time, researchers say, this poor posture, sometimes called “text neck,” can lead to early wear-and-tear on the spine, degeneration, herniated discs and even surgery.
Even tough true incidences and prevalences of cervical degeneration are uncertain; however, studieshave shown that 50-67% of adults experience neck and arm pain at some time, and 54% report painpresent within the last 6 months. Today's statistics also show on MRIs, that 25% percent of asymptomaticindividuals under age 40 show signs of cervical disc degeneration (that is one in four individuals!); thisincreases to about 60% in asymptomatic adults over age 40 (that is more than one in two individuals!).
“Neck strains is becoming an epidemic or, at least, it’s more and more common.” Hansraj, chief of spinesurgery at New York Spine Surgery and Rehabilitation Medicine, told The Washington Post. “Just lookaround you, everyone has their heads down.” To understand better how this new poor posture awarenesscan affect your neck and cause inhibiting pains, we want to go over a little more anatomy of this part ofyour body.
The anatomy of your neck is a well-engineered structure of bones, nerves, muscles, ligaments and tendons.
The cervical spine (neck) is delicate - housing the spinal cord that sends messages from the brain to control all aspects of the body - while also remarkably flexible, allowing movement in all directions, and strong.
The neck begins at the base of the skull and through a series of seven vertebral segments connects to the thoracic spine (the upper back). With its complex and intricate construct, and the many stresses and force that can be placed on it through a trauma or even just daily activities, the cervical spine is at risk for developing a number of painful conditions, such as:
-Cervical degenerative disc diseaseCervical herniated disc
-Cervical stenosis
-Cervical osteoarthritis
-Simple muscle strain resulting in a painful or stiff neck.
The cervical spine maintains several crucial roles, including:
- Housing and protecting the spinal cord. A bundle of nerves that extends from the brain and runs through the cervical spine and thoracic spine (upper and middle back) prior to ending just before the lumbar spine (lower back), the spinal cord relays messages from the brain to the rest of the body .
- Supporting the head and its movement. The cervical spine literally shoulders a big load, as the head weighs on average between 10 and 13 pounds. In addition to supporting the head, the cervical spine allows for the head's flexibility, including rotational, flexion/extension and lateral bending motions.
- Facilitating flow of blood to the brain. Vertebral openings (vertebral foramen) in the cervical spine provide a passageway for vertebral arteries to pass and ensure proper blood flow to the brain.These openings are present only in the vertebrae of the cervical spine.
The cervical vertebrae play a key role in maintaining these functions in the neck.
Can’t grasp the significance of 60 degree incline and 60pounds on your neck in your 'Text Neck Position' ?
Imagine carrying an 8-year-old around your neck several hours per day. Smartphone users spend an average of two to four hours per day hunched over, reading e-mails, sending texts or checking social media sites. That’s 700 to 1,400hours per year people are putting stress on their spines, according to the research. And high-schoolers might be the worst. They could conceivably spend an additional5,000 hours in this position, Hansraj said. "The problem is really profound in young people,” he said. “With this excessive stress in the neck, we might start seeing young people needing spine care. I would really like to see parents showing more guidance.”
Medical experts have been warning people for years. Some say for every inch the head tilts forward, the pressure on the spine doubles. The effect is similar to bending a finger all the wayback and holding it there for about an hour.
As the tissue is being stretched back for a long period of time, it gets sore, it gets inflamed and injured. This can then also lead to muscle strain, pinched nerves, herniated disks and, over time, it can even remove the neck’s natural curve which will affect furthermore the whole anatomy of the spine causing further issues and pain because of this new misaligned and poor posture.
Poor posture can then cause other problems. As an example, experts say it can reduce lung capacity by as much as 30 percent because of the compression through a misaligned and tight ribcage. It has also been linked to headaches and neurological issues, depression and heart disease.
“While it is nearly impossible to avoid todays technologies that cause these issues, individuals should make an effort to look at their phones with a neutral spine and to avoid spending hours each day hunched over,” according to the research.
Smartphone users tips to avoid pain are:
- Look down at your device with your eyes. No need to bend your neck or lift your phone level with your neck.
- Exercise: Move your head from left to right, up & down, forward and back several times. Use your hands to provide resistance and press your head gently against them, first forward and then backward.
- Stand in a doorway with your arms extended and push your chest forward to open the ribcage.
- Stand against a wall to teach proper head alignment in relation to the rest of your body. Three points of contact should touch the wall: head, upper back and pelvis should be touching the wall with the clavicle wide. You will be surprised how many people can not reach back with their heads sufficiently to be in contact with the whole body.
So all our neck strains and injuries due to poor posture are nothing to mess around with, but they don't have to keep you from working out and using your Pilates knowledge
As a matter of fact, Pilates with its carefully controlled movements, will help immensely by releasing and strengthening the neck, shoulder and back muscles. Overdoing it can make things worse, so it's important that you keep your movements fairly gentle, very controlled and absolutely pain free.
As a boxer Joseph Pilates had developed numerous exercising mobilizing and strengthening the neck muscles. He was well aware of how essential and important neck alignment and a healthy neck is going to be for a healthy mind in a efficient body. Apparently he used to stand in front of his window at thePilates studio in New York watching people walk down the streets and would say: "look at this men walking down the street, his head will reach the corner of the street 3 seconds before the rest of his body... He NEEDS Pilates!" Unfortunately a lot of those neck exercises have been taken out of today'sPilates practice as they were misinterpreted and demand a lot of body awareness and body wisdom to be performed safely. Most of our today's clients would not be able to perform his Neck Repertoire with no strain. But this does not mean that because we have taken out Joseph neck repertoire, we should forget about the taking care of our neck. Reintroducing the concepts of his exercises by adapting them to today's clients ability is essential and has never been more needed because of our excessive use of technology. But very little teachers use these concepts and give homework to their clients to maintain a healthy neck... So let's introduce this again the sooner the better.
The first time I was personally introduced to the importance of exercising the neck was in my postgraduate training with Elder Master Teacher Lolitas San Miguel that had developed a whole sequence of Post Pilates exercises including specific Neck and Wall exercises to maintain good posture for better everyday living. After having understood the importance of your neck, there has not been a class, without me teaching my clients to take care of their neck and its alignment. Working your Neck should involve mobilization movements targeting the head, the neck, the scapula and rib cage through progressive breathing.
So the whole aim of bringing more awareness when using your smartphones more wisely was not to bashing technology in any way but to simply be much more cognizant of where your head is in space when you text. So continue to enjoy your smartphones and this technology — just make sure your "head is up"and "mobilize" your neck 3-4 times a week (every second day) to avoid any patterns that can lead to pain.
Taking care of your neck and its strains because of today's modern world has to become an essential part again in your exercise routine if you want to stay healthy in your body and your mind 'for the greater enjoyment of life' just like Joseph Pilates wrote in his book Return to Life.
Source:
Text Neck based on an article in the Washington Post written by Lindsey Bever, general assignment reporter, November 20, 2014.Study informations based on the courtesy of Dr. Ken Hansraj M.D.

We all know that Pilates is a movement method rebalancing and acting on the Mind, the Body & the Spirit.
Thinking that we can address each on if those bodies independently and separately would be rather foolish as the body acts as one complete and holistic being, integrating our Mind and our Emotions at all times in everything we do and whenever we move. We are just as much what we think, as what we feel and what we do every day, every hour, every second of our life.
Joseph Pilates dealt mainly with people suffering from mechanical and physical distress which caused pains. But in today's times, I cannot stop noticing how much more people suffer from emotional and mental distress causing pains and chronic aches. Joseph was aware of this fast growing world and that men would eventually suffer from the imbalances in the body caused by stress.
Elder Master Teacher Mary Bowen was one of my teachers who has helped me understand and experience how much my own emotions and my subconscious affect my body and my postural behaviour. Our emotional body isway more powerful on us that we possibly are aware of or we want to recognise. Giving it acknowledgement is the first step to better health, I believe. Being aware on which body parts act as a sponge to our emotions and how mobilising these body parts can lead to good emotional health was a life saviour to me in some moments of my life.
I hope that with this sample of information about the science of our emotions affecting our health, based on kinesiology, you will be more aware of the subtleties of the relationship emotions have with our body and our mind.
Our emotions affect us physically whether we are aware of it or not.
It might be easy to understand that a scary thought gets our heart beating faster, but it can be harder to realise that loneliness, sadness or depression can also affect us physically, and when it comes to more complex emotions or illnesses few of us consider our emotions to have any relevance.
Emotions that are freely experienced and expressed without judgment or attachment tend to flow fluidly. On the other hand, repressed emotions (especially fearful or negative ones) can zap mental energy and lead to health problems...
It's important to recognise our thoughts and emotions and be aware of the impact they have - not only on each other, but also on our bodies, behaviour, and relationships.
Generally speaking, we tend to think of our bodies and minds as separate systems and believe they function, for the most part, independently. Yet instinctively we know that is not the whole story. Understanding the body-mind relationship won’t necessarily cure all our physical difficulties, but by learning the language of symptoms and illness we can discover what is being repressed or ignored in our psyche and emotions, and how this is influencing our well-being. From this vantage point we can discover that there is an extraordinarily intimate three-way communication going on between our body, our mind and our emotions that affects both our physical state and our mental and emotional health.
By brining your attention to our emotions, I am not trying to convince anyone that the sole reason for illness is in our emotions. Nor am I saying that by understanding how the mind, body and emotions work together that we’ll be able to miraculously cure ourselves.
What I believe although is that the role of the mind and emotions in our state of health is a vital one. By understanding this relationship they have to one an other we can claim a greater role in our own well-being. It is only a part of the overall picture, but it is the part that is invariably overlooked.
The Pilates method helps us move from the inside to the outside. Being able to integrate how we feel when we move with the method is creating that inner flow from the inside to the outside. Being more sensitive to our inner balance will strengthen our immune system, strengthen us from within and evacuate any repressed tensions for better general health and for the “Greater Enjoyment of Life”, like Joe would claim!
In this very brief and short description of different emotions leading to illnesses you will be able to awaken you awareness to the power of repressing your emotions. So try to detect your inner emotional state as soon as possible evacuating the tension physically through movement or mentally through positive thinking.
PANIC
can cause diarrhea
Repressed ANGER or RESENTMENT
kidney failure
DIFFICULTY FINDING YOUR PLACE OR TAKING YOUR PLACE
can cause repeated urinary infections
SOMETHING THAT YOU DO NOT WANT TO HEAR OR WHEN YOU DON’T WANT TO LISTEN
otitis or earache
SOMETHING THAT YOU CANNOT SAY OR SOMETHING HAS BEEN REVEALED
angina or chest pain
A REFUSAL TO GIVE IN, TO COMPROMISE, TO OBEY OR TO SUBMIT
knee problems
FEAR OF THE FUTURE, FEAR OF CHANGE OR FEAR OF LOSING MONEY
lumbar pain
INFLEXIBILITY OR RIGIDITY
back pain and stiff neck
CONFLICT WITH AUTHORITY
shoulder pain
DOING EVERYTHING YOURSELF
also shoulder pains and a burdening sensation
GRINDING THE TEETH TO CONFRONT SOMEONE OR A SITUATION WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING
dental pain, ulcers and abscess
FEAR OF THE FUTURE
difficulty moving forward, or needing to lift the feet. Pain in the legs, feet or ankles
Knee pain, knees that break, knees that crack, pains in the meniscus: refusal to bend and to “fall to the knees" (to submit) to yield, pride, ego, inflexible character or being contrary, you submit by not saying anything, or abstaining but our knees tell us whether or not we agree with this situation.
- Difficulty accepting comments or criticism from others.
- Problems with authority and rank, ego problems, pride.
- Having to concede in order to save the peace.
- Suppressed or frustrated ambition due to an exterior cause, stubbornness, humiliation.
- Guilty for being right.
- Anger at being too influenceable.
There are several emotional causes linked to pains and arm problems. The arms are an extension of the heart and are linked to the action of giving and receiving, as well as authority and power. Pains in the arms can be linked to difficulty loving what I am doing. Feeling useless, doubting your abilities, which leads the person to retreat into themselves and to take pity on their own suffering.
- They believe that they have to take care of someone.
- Not feeling superior when they have the ”upper hand" on someone.
- Difficulty taking others in their arms and showing them affection.
- I do not allow myself to do things for myself because I judge myself and I remember my strict up bringing, which has damaged me.
- I do not allow myself to take things or I regret having taken something, or I think that I have taken something that I don’t deserve.
- Or something has been given to me out of duty, that I haven’t taken, I feel angry.
- This is linked to having been judged by one’s parents.
- Wanting to trap someone in your arms to have them under your control, but having to let them go again, and then not being able to love them and protect them (a child, for example...).
- Reliving a failed situation, wanting to lower the arms.
These are the parts that carry. The shoulders carry the joys, the pains, the responsibilities and the insecurities. The burden of our actions and everything we wish to do, but we are not permitted to, or what we are afraid to do... We become responsible for the happiness of others, we take everything on ourselves, we have too much to do, we feel overwhelmed, not carried, not supported.
- Possible pains also when you are prevented from acting or when things are imposed on you.
- When you are in a situation you no longer want to be in, you want to do something else, but the lack of self-confidence stops us.
- You lack support, you lack the means. You do not feel assisted.
- A loved one or one of our parents is sad and we would like to take their sadness and their problems and take it away.
- Repressed anger towards a child or another person who which is simmering gently while we do not even give ourselves the right to take a break.
- At work or at home, with our spouse, we feel obliged to submit, we feel dominated and we don’t dare react.
- We feel emotional insecurity (pain in the left shoulder) or material insecurity (pain in the right shoulder).
Stiff and blocked shoulders:
a blockage in the circulation of the heart’s energy, which runs from the shoulder, then to the arm, the arm gives (the right arm) and receives (the left arm). The blockage of energy is often retained in an artery or tissue.
The energy must circulate from the heart towards the arm to enable us to realize our desires.
We wear masks, we lock our feelings, we keep grudges (pains in the trapezius, especially in the left) sometimes towards ourselves. We paralyze our shoulders to prevent ourselves from moving forward and from doing what we really want. We take the burden on ourselves, rather than expressing our demands and our thoughts, for fear of offending the other person. Difficulty or inability to life the arm: deep conflict in the family, difficulty flying with your own wings.
Try to modify, clarify or to let go in terms of the situation that is bothering you.
As a general rule:
distress implodes on the inside and demands to be released.
- Desire to escape or to leave a situation where one feels trapped, but where one remains out of fear of missing something, generally material.
- Self-punishment because you do not have the ability to understand certain things you want.
- Frustration of working hard, feeling pushed to go too far, or or trying to reach your goal in an excessive waywhich demands too much. Mental pressure (stress) tries too escape.
However, in addition the place or the seat of the hernia indicates its emotional message in a more precise and detailed way:
Inguinal hernia:
(in the groin): difficulty expressing one’s creativity, a secret that one is keeping and that is making us suffer. A desire to escape with a person who is unpleasant but with whom we have a connection or with whom we are obliged to be in contact with. We would love to leave and to escape from this situation.
Umbilical hernia:
feelings of nostalgia for the mother’s womb where everything was easy and where we felt totally secure. Refusal to life.
Herniated disc:
interior conflict, too much responsibility, feeling devalued, not feeling on top of what is expected of us, projects and ideas not being recognized. The spinal column represents support. A need to be carried, supported, but difficulty or inability to ask for help.
Hiatus hernia:
feeling trapped in being able to express one’s feelings and experiences. Repressing one’s emotions. Wanting to control everything, not allowing yourself to be lead by life but rather controlling it.
Skin problems very often have their origins at a badly managed or, badly experienced conflict of separation by either the mother or the child due to the fear of remaining alone and a lack of communication. The separation is also towards oneself: under appreciation of oneself as opposed to others around us. Paying too much attention to what others might think of us.
Eczema:
- Anxiety, fear of the future,
- Difficulty in expressing oneself.
- Impatience and annoyance at not being able to resolve a conflict.
- Separation, grief or no contact with a loved one.
In children, eczema can result from too rapid a separation or from a difficulty by the mother in accepting that herchild is no longer "in her”.Weaning from the breast or the mother going back to work again and unexpressed guilt,that the child nonetheless senses and somatisizes as a result. Quarrels or tension in the family that the child senses.Insecurity.
Acne:
an indirect way of pushing others away out of fear of being discovered, of showing what one really is, because wethink that we cannot be loved the way we are. Because we are rejected, we create a barrier so that others cannot approach us.
- Refusal to have one’s own image, personality or new appearance.
- Ashamed at the transformation’s taking place in their body.
- Difficulty being alone, refusal to identify with the parent of the same sex.
Psoriasis:
the person is often hyper sensitive and does not fit well in their skin and would like to be someone else. Not feeling recognized, having an identity crisis. Psoriasis is like an arm or with which to defend yourself.
- Need to feel perfect in order to be loved.
- Often a double conflict of separation, either with two different people, or an old non-resolved conflict, which has been reactivated by a new separation situation.
- Feeling belittled or rejected, edgy.
- Protecting oneself from being approached physically, or protecting one’s vulnerability, putting up a barrier.
Sources: books by Lise Bourbeau, Jacques Martel, Claudia Rainville, Philippe Dransart, Philippe Huraux, http://www.huffingtonpost.com.